Sex and Relationship ​Self-Advocacy

Most women are taught to center everyone else at our own expense. To make ourselves smaller and more palatable.

​Told we’re selfish for setting limits or wanting something different for our lives than the script we’re sold. Told we’re too much or not enough. 

Like most women, you advocate fiercely for your best friend, sister, or daughter. You tell her that she deserves the best, and to not settle for anything less. 

What about you? Do you advocate for yourself with that same vigor?

Despite all of the advancements women have achieved in society, I often see women struggle most in their closest, intimate relationships: with partners, family, and themselves.

​This struggle significantly impacts our mental, emotional, sexual, spiritual, and physical health. It affects our relationships, workplaces, communities, institutions, social movements, politics, and how we show up and lead.  

I want you to know that YOU matter just as much as your friend or daughter.

​Your life and satisfaction should not be sidelined or trivialized. 

This is why I founded Sex & Relationship Self-Advocacy (SARSA). SARSA’s mission is to equip you with the knowledge and skills to stand as a strong self-advocate in your intimate life.
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​I have over twelve years of experience educating thousands of people on healthy relationships, sexuality, social change, trauma, and abuse.

​​I am driven to help women step into their power to boldly use their voice, take up space, holistically integrate, liberate, and advocate for equity in every sphere of our lives–not only for others–for ourselves!

SARSA Services Offered

Classes

I facilitate online and in-person classes to build your knowledge around topics we were never taught in school: female sexuality, pleasure, desire, discovering and asking for what you want. 

coaching

I offer individualized support to equity-minded women struggling with intimacy issues to pave their own path, rewrite the scripts, enforce boundaries, align with their values, self-advocate, and allow their inner wisdom to guide them forward.

Couples assessments

I facilitate Prepare/Enrich, a transformative assessment and intimacy catalyst designed for committed couples who are looking to strengthen their relationship.

​Tell me what YOU want!

I want to get to know you and serve you better.

Fill out this quick survey regarding your interests related to Sex & Relationship Self-Advocacy!

Tell me more about your identity, the topics you care about, venues, and availability so I can cater my services to your most essential intimate needs. 

​This survey is completely anonymous.

Sarsa interest survey

"No person is your friend who demands your silence, or denies your right to grow."

-Alice Walker